Youth Advisory Council

Our Youth Advisory Council is critical to our work, and their enthusiasm and commitment to our mission inspires us every day. They bring important voices to the development and delivery of our programs. This past year they've served on panels, convened speakers, and brought our youth violence prevention program to hundreds of other students and adults!

Aidan (He/Him/His) Falmouth, Maine
Maine Coast Waldorf School (Class of 2021)
YAC member since 2019

"I believe that youth have value and add many positive things to society. I see myself as able to make a difference and that means something to me. Gender pressures are ubiquitous. That is not to say that all gender pressure is a bad thing, but it took being involved in MB2M to see the role that gender plays in our world. I am lucky enough to be able to live a life mostly devoid of crushing pressure to conform, but MB2M has given me the ability to empathize with those who do.

Just because I am a youth doesn't mean I am not qualified to have opinions. Just because I am a man doesn't mean I haven't been wronged by gender roles. I value kindness above all and I believe that youth will impact change because they are awesome."

Grace (She/Her/Hers) Freeport, Maine
Freeport High School (Class of 2020)
YAC member since 2019

"I am the president of my school's Reducing Sexism and Violence Program. I love having spaces to connect with like-minded people and to remind myself of my values and what I'm passionate about. Just because I'm a young person, doesn't mean I'm careless, can't care for the future, or can't understand how the world works. I am proud to be part of a new generation!"

Jared (He/Him/His) Yarmouth, Maine
Yarmouth High School (Class of 2022)
YAC member since 2020

"The value of being involved in the Youth Council is that I can be a role model and give my input. Just because I am a young person doesn't mean I am immature, doesn't mean I am stupid, and doesn't mean I am ignorant. I am just still learning. I think what adults should know about my value as a young person is that we are the next generation that can make a change by learning from them."

Jason (He/Him/His) Freeport, Maine
Union College (Class of 2023)
YAC member since 2016

"I first got involved with Maine Boys to Men because I wanted to be informed of the ways I can personally limit gender-based violence in my community. After learning more about the organization and valuing their beliefs, I became the president of my school's RSVP group in my junior year and simultaneously joined the Maine Boys to Men Youth Advisory Council. My "aha" moment with MB2M came when I realized that there were a lot of aspects of my life that I could personally improve using their teachings. What I love about Maine Boys to Men is that they never tell you how to act, but rather give you the tools necessary to express yourself however you see appropriate to yourself and your situation.

It's difficult to navigate the world no matter how you identify, and I find that Maine Boys to Men has not only helped me find my own way of approaching life, it has also made me more aware of the different approaches of those around me. Since I believe in MB2M so strongly, I wish to spread the same messaging they do to as many people as I can. I have improved immensely regarding leadership and self-confidence since I have been involved. I take great pride in my engagement with MB2M and believe that their philosophy now extends into nearly every aspect of my life.

Joe Les (He/Him/His) Pownal, Maine
Freeport High School (Class of 2021)
Youth Council member since 2019

"At the MB2M training, I was surprised at how willingly many people opened up and actively participated. It was really great to see this, especially from people that I didn't really expect. Through involving myself with MB2M, I have learned that the issues we address are even more prevalent than I thought, and I have also gained lots of insight regarding these issues. I continue to stay involved because I constantly see gender stereotyping and similar issues around me, and addressing these issues is important to me. The most common (and basic) example of this is that I constantly hear my peers use problematic language like "fag" or "retard" as insults. To me, the value of being involved with the Freeport RSVP club and MB2M is knowing and seeing that we are creating change. This could be as small as noticing people phasing out problematic insults like the ones that I mentioned.

I think youth can impact change because they have the greatest influence on other young people. The more youth there are working towards a cause, the more other young people there will be in support of that cause. I think that community is important in preventing violence because if a community can manage to reach new people, more and more people will become a part of that community and the influence of the community will spread. I think this is more effective than just telling people what to do. I think MB2M is preventing violence by helping to create a community with regards to preventing gender-related issues."

Julia (She/Her/Hers) South Portland/Cape Elizabeth, Maine
Southern Maine Community College
YAC member since 2017

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Linguo (He/Him/His) Portland, ME
Waynflete (Class of 2021)
Youth Council member since 2019

"I really like the people in the Youth Council. Everyone is really nice and supportive. Diverse opinions and perspectives emerge while we have discussions, so it is a really productive place to learn. People respect each other even if we are disagreeing. I believe that youth not only have the ability to lead and make a difference in the world, but we will also contribute the most to the change of the world because we are more creative, energetic and adaptable. We are more open to new things, new people, and new connections, and these are the key components to impact changes in this globalization era.

Just because I am a young person, doesn't mean I am naïve, reckless, or not thoughtful. Just because I am a male doesn't mean I am always powerful, always strong, or always a provider. I am a male who is not going to be restricted by stereotype."

Maggie (She/Her/Hers) Scarborough, Maine
Employed at Dana Hall School for Girls/Professional Horse Trainer
YAC Member since 2018

"I became involved with Maine Boys to Men because of my story of survival. From the first meeting I went to, I immediately felt flooded with support. Sitting in a room full of complete strangers, telling them my story, and each and every one of them made me feel as though we were not strangers and they had my back. Ever since then, Maine Boys to Men has been quite literally a backbone for me. I became involved because they not only have been gracious enough to let me share my story, but they have taught me such valuable things about multiple different aspects of life. I continue to be involved because I have watched Maine Boys to Men change lives. They are the most welcoming, non-judgmental, open minded and caring group of people. I feel honored to be a part of it. The value of this work to me is immeasurable. This work has helped me grow both within my own mind and my perspectives on life. I would encourage anyone to join our Youth Council, they will not regret it."

Natalie (She/Her/Hers) Freeport, Maine
Endicott College (Class of 2023)
YAC member since 2018

"I first got involved with Maine Boys to Men early on in my high school career, but I slowly became more involved as it became an outlet for me to share my own personal journey in an act to help others. I have both participated in and facilitated many trainings designed by MB2M and have had a new "AHA!" moment each time. That said, I have found so much value in being involved in this work, whether it be self-discovery or helping others do the same. My hope for our community is that folks of all ages can understand the power of voice and that there is a place for all voices in this world. I firmly believe we, as a population, have a lot to learn from young people and Maine Boys to Men is a perfect resource to help young folks find their voice in order to do so.

Just because I am a young person does not mean I am weak, does not mean I am unheard, does not mean I am less smart. I am experienced and eager to share my story in hopes of helping other survivors identify what they want their story to look like."

Olivia (She/Her/Hers) Cumberland, Maine
Maine Coast Waldorf High School (Class of 2021)
YAC Member since 2019

"Maine Boys to Men came to my school for a training last fall. I was struck by how much I learned about the human nature of youth based on the stereotypes of our society. During some of the activities, it was brought to my attention that nearly my entire school struggles with issues surrounding conformity and peer pressure. I was horrified by the amount of people experiencing low self-esteem issues, loneliness, and self-loathe. I figured that after my classmates were vulnerable with each other, we'd become more of a community and these problems would float away with the support and care that I assumed would replace the anxiety and stress. That didn't occur. In fact, days after the Maine Boys to Men training, people resumed life as usual and continued ignoring the struggles, even after knowing that every single person was experiencing their same emotions. I decided to join the Youth Council to become more informed on how to approach the toxicity of high school and attempt to do my part to cleanse the environment around me, for myself and other teens."

Owen (He/Him/His) Freeport, Maine
Maine Coast Waldorf High School (Class of 2021)
YAC Member since 2019

"I love how everyone in Youth Council comes from different schools, towns, places and works together with a common goal, open to hearing everyone's opinions, and helping those goals come to fruition. I think that it isn't just adults or children, that is too definite. If everyone honestly listened to other people's opinions, goals, or beliefs, we could progress incredibly. Maine Boys to Men is education, and in my opinion, if people know more about violence or harassment, they will notice things and make changes however small. And if we are able to start discussions, that will spur even more changes in the way people go about their lives. That's why I keep coming back to the Youth Council, because the more I know, the more I notice and the more I can change."

Sarah (She/Her/Hers) Scarborough, Maine
Hofstra University (Class of 2023)
YAC Member Since 2016

"I got involved with Maine Boys to Men during my sophomore year at Scarborough High School in 2016. I attended my high school's first Maine Boys to Men training and after that started my school's Reducing Sexism and Violence Club and began working as a student advocate, hosting screenings, panels, and training as well as getting involved with the Youth Council with MB2M. I am now a student at Hofstra University as a part of the class of 2023 and am advocating on my campus as a Fellow for Hofstra's Center for Civic Engagement. I hope to continue Maine Boys to Men's work in New York. I, most recently, have also begun working as a more formal volunteer for the organization."

Satchel (He/Him/His) Falmouth, Maine
Maine Coast Waldorf High School (Class of 2021)
YAC Member since 2019

"Honestly, I came into my school's MB2M presentation and was skeptical. I certainly did not consider myself an activist, although I always believed in much of what MB2M does. Working with this group has made me more aware of issues and how I can help in even a moderate way. My involvement has taught me how to have an open and accepting mind.

The Youth Council is a highlight of my week. The important issues that we discuss need more attention and resolution in the world. We don't know everything, and we certainly can't fix everything, but we do our best to inform ourselves and others of these issues and work toward solutions in our community. Just because I am a young person, that doesn't mean I am uninformed, incapable, or unable to create change."