At Maine Boys to Men, we believe in the transformative power of connection, empathy, and curiosity. It was with those core tenets in mind – as well as our commitment to working with youth in Maine – that we agreed to enter into a collaboration with the youth at Long Creek Youth Development Center. For three sessions in June, we had the privilege of working with the young men at Long Creek, helping them explore new ways of understanding themselves and their relationships with others.
Fostering Trust in a Challenging Environment:
In an environment where loneliness is often the norm, building trust and comfort among the group we were working with was essential. Through trust-building activities and honest conversations, the boys at Long Creek showed up ready to engage, reflect, and talk openly about their thoughts and experiences.
One moment in particular stands out. During an activity where everyone was responsible for holding a segment of rope that connected the entire group through a web, a participant who admitted to feeling scared about trusting his peers allowed himself to be supported by them as they held the rope. His vulnerability in that moment was met with support and care, a powerful shift from the fear and isolation that so often defines life in a correctional facility. This small act of trust rippled through the group, showing that even in the most challenging environments, connection is always possible.
Transformative Conversations About Masculinity:
Central to our work is the belief that young men need space to question the narrow and limiting definitions of masculinity that have been handed to them. At Long Creek, we facilitated activities where participants explored the ways they’ve been taught to hide their true selves behind masks of toughness, anger, or apathy.
What followed were often profound conversations, where the boys shared their surprise at the depth and sincerity of their peers’ participation. “We actually had a cool and meaningful conversation,” one participant said. These moments of realization are the foundation for lasting change, breaking down harmful narratives and replacing them with new, healthier ones.
Looking Ahead:
Our time at Long Creek may have been brief, but the impact of continues to resonate. We’re hopeful that this is just the beginning of a longer-term relationship so we can continue to help these young men explore new ways of understanding themselves and their role in the world.
At Maine Boys to Men, we are committed to changing the narrative—both for the young men at Long Creek and for all the communities we serve. Through empathy, curiosity, and vulnerability, we believe we can build a world where people of all genders are equally valued, respected, and safe.
Call to Action:
If you believe in the power of transformation and connection, we invite you to support our work. Make a donation today or sign up for one of our upcoming programs. Together, we can create lasting change.